Missed rent and ruined laptops — a roommate survival guide

Missed rent and ruined laptops — a roommate survival guide

Living with roommates can save money — until someone skips rent, breaks your laptop, or ghosts on the Wi-Fi bill.

Whether you're still living together or not, here's how to ask for what you're owed (calmly, clearly, and legally) — from casual text to formal claim:

1. Start with a real conversation

A friendly nudge goes a long way. Try something simple:

“Hey, just wanted to check in on last month’s rent — any update?”
Keep receipts of any conversations in case things go south.

2. Put it in writing

If there’s no progress, follow up with a short written message. Summarize:

  • What’s owed

  • Why

  • When you expect payment

Example:

“Just following up — you still owe $600 for the February rent. I’d really appreciate if you could send it by next Friday.”

3. Send a formal notice (mise en demeure)

Still no response? Time to level up.
In Québec, you can send a mise en demeure — a formal demand letter that says:

  • What you're asking for

  • Why you're legally entitled to it

  • When you expect a reply (usually within 10 days)

It’s not aggressive — it’s smart. Courts expect this before you file a claim.

4. Go to small claims (if needed)

If talking didn’t work, you can file in small claims court (Division des petites créances) — not the Tribunal administratif du logement.
Here’s why:

The TAL handles landlord-tenant issues, not disputes between roommates.
So if your co-tenant owes you rent, broke your stuff, or skipped out on shared expenses — small claims is the place.

You can file online, and you don’t need a lawyer.

💬 Roommate conflicts are awkward. But getting repaid shouldn’t be a mystery.
Heard of Leya? It’s the easiest way to get legal help in Québec — book online, no phone tag, no pressure.
When you’re ready, we’ll be here.

👉 Learn more about how Leya works

Living with roommates can save money — until someone skips rent, breaks your laptop, or ghosts on the Wi-Fi bill.

Whether you're still living together or not, here's how to ask for what you're owed (calmly, clearly, and legally) — from casual text to formal claim:

1. Start with a real conversation

A friendly nudge goes a long way. Try something simple:

“Hey, just wanted to check in on last month’s rent — any update?”
Keep receipts of any conversations in case things go south.

2. Put it in writing

If there’s no progress, follow up with a short written message. Summarize:

  • What’s owed

  • Why

  • When you expect payment

Example:

“Just following up — you still owe $600 for the February rent. I’d really appreciate if you could send it by next Friday.”

3. Send a formal notice (mise en demeure)

Still no response? Time to level up.
In Québec, you can send a mise en demeure — a formal demand letter that says:

  • What you're asking for

  • Why you're legally entitled to it

  • When you expect a reply (usually within 10 days)

It’s not aggressive — it’s smart. Courts expect this before you file a claim.

4. Go to small claims (if needed)

If talking didn’t work, you can file in small claims court (Division des petites créances) — not the Tribunal administratif du logement.
Here’s why:

The TAL handles landlord-tenant issues, not disputes between roommates.
So if your co-tenant owes you rent, broke your stuff, or skipped out on shared expenses — small claims is the place.

You can file online, and you don’t need a lawyer.

💬 Roommate conflicts are awkward. But getting repaid shouldn’t be a mystery.
Heard of Leya? It’s the easiest way to get legal help in Québec — book online, no phone tag, no pressure.
When you’re ready, we’ll be here.

👉 Learn more about how Leya works